Well, I spoke to the pool builder about the wall suction channel drain and its not set at the right depth. The plumbers will need to come back out before gunite to reset it at the proper depth (and ensure the floor drains are set at the right depth as well), so no gunite tomorrow. I doubt gunite would have happened tomorrow anyway given the forecast.
This may sound a bit dramatic, but I have deep regret about choosing this builder. I have little to no confidence things are being done correctly due to the sheer amount of mis-steps (both big and small) to date. We'd already arrived at a point where we weren't engaged with the owner anymore, solely the project manager, due to all the issues.
I called the owner back today and had another serious conversation with him about what we could do to get back on track. I'd set the expectation from the beginning of the conversation that my intention was to find a solution to keep our build moving. He stated his preference was to walk away from our pool build, which sort of shocked me. He didn't want to accept ownership for any of the mistakes... he just kept deflecting blame or asking why certain things were issues if they weren't done right. I told him I was confident in my position if he decided to walk away, as I have notes of the daily happenings of our pool and our conversations. I told him quite calmly and respectfully that if we ended up in court, I didn't foresee any issues getting a judgment in my favor.
He finally started backing off that ledge when I kept telling him it was in everyone's best interest to build this pool together. I told him to sleep on it. Let his emotions cool and we could circle back tomorrow. The conversation got a lot better after that, so we'll see where we end up.
He seemed to think that all our issues were because of my request for specific things like spec'ing channel drains, asking for specific pipe sizes to support certain flow rates for waterfalls, returns, etc. or asking for heater bypasses, questioning how high the rebar was propped up, or asking why the water feature wall was not rebar'd to the proper height, per our design.
The pool builder was upset I pointed out the wall suction issue today... he said the gunite crew would have spotted that issue while shooting and fixed it on the spot. I find that hard to believe. My Dad works for a gunite company.
I might be wrong, but I don't see this any differently than building my house. The builder for my house told me very clearly and honestly... this is a partnership. If you see something wrong or not the way you spec'd it while we are building, please point it out. I'll do my best to get it right and catch any mistakes before you, but I'm not always perfect. Easier to fix something as soon as someone sees the issue than hoping it gets fixed down the road. I noticed things like a missing door we added to a wall, bath tub not being framed as we had it designed, etc. etc. and my home builder was happy we pointed it out. These were things we paid for anyway. Apparently my pool builder thinks that's why our pool build has been a disaster and I just don't agree.