So this is pool story related, (it is!), but I promise it will be the last....
So I was about to go through the last state of denial last night--I was Really close to nirvana-- and accept the school thing (which is going to be resolved by homeschooling again.. I just didn't want to do that in High School, but community college is an okay start anyway-- not going to HS will force that-- the situation is not fixable by staying in the district schools)... and... I get a Facebook message from one of my neighbors asking why do I own their house? Now that's actually the second one I got, but the first one was someone questioning from one of those fraudulent mailings you get...and at that time I looked and all seemed okay.
But no.. this one was from someone who was trying to list their house and pulled the tax records. It looks like instead of the county giving me my 768 sqft of my backyard needed for the pool with the quit claim deed from "the biggest builder" that Pima County recorded it as me owning 285 parcels in my subdivision. Yeah, my tax bill is now probably $630,000 a year which is more than the cost of living calculator indicated it would be when I came here by a small margin.
So yeah, there are 350 million people in the US and not a single other one is going to have to take a day of vacation this week and hang out at the recorder's office to ask "nicely" to give back 283 of the parcels (most with homes on it) back to the neighbors. So is it Tucson? I'm still convinced that it is, honestly.
Now the good side of all of this is there was a emergency meeting of the HOA last night in my kitchen and I was voted the HOA president...

And thankfully I didn't feel comfortable filing the paperwork to combine the lots until later (after I checked on the first transaction) or I might have to go and resubdivide the entire area again now....
But yeah.. I don't think I can handle this if it rapidly doesn't start to get less stupid. Even four more years to get the older boys through college is going to be tough. I have to stay through the end of the season next year no matter what.. so I'm still going to have the pool for at least one season.