Dirk, I've been following this thread for a couple days, and recently was subjected to how much panic can limit ones thought process.
I experienced my own panic of chocking. There were two people in the house with me, one was preparing to leave right when I stuck a large chunk of watermelon in my mouth and started to chew, I was being called to the door to say goodbye when I thought I had chewed a sufficient enough amount to swallow, after all this watermelon was very soft. I was wrong, I ran to the sink to try and cough it up, with no success. I tried to scream to them, but no sounds were coming out. I started pounding on the countertop to get their attention. A few moments later they looked around the corner perplexed, asking me what was wrong. Not sure if I was pointing at my opened mouth or what but they did see the panic on my face. I pounded on the countertop a couple more times, and somehow rasped out a somewhat audible "I'm chocking!". Within the seconds they were rushing to me I managed to cough up the lodged watermelon.
This scared the b'geezus out of me. I do believe I was moments away from passing out. Afterwards, I was reminded of all the times I've read and watched about preforming the Heimlich maneuver on yourself. But there I was ... at an extra high countertop and because of my panic, I had forgotten what I should do. I'm putting a reminder in my calendar to a few times a year to refresh my memory on how to do it to myself, and I now know that the universal sign for chocking is to place hand on your throat and not pointing your finger to your opened mouth.
I fully understand your concern to keep your children safe, and this thread has made me more aware of the potential dangers with vacuums. THANKS!
I had the same thing happen to me, only with a piece of steak. I know the fear you speak of all to well. Only in my situation, I had to give myself the Heimlich maneuver as my wife is tiny compared to me. To this day I still cut my steak up in tiny pieces before I take my first bite!!
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