Ok beach so you have no joined the ranks of Kim and are sending me further into the poor house lol. I showed my wife the lights and we are ordering a pair and just submitted to have our plans redone so we can add extra electrical around the yard.
funny thing is before this site I was going for a basic pool no spa and now I'm probably going to be into my project another 15-20k with all the nice things I see here..... is there a way to say no and not try to incorporate everyone's fancy ideas
Sorry about that...pool projects seem to be like that. Way back when, I had a "pool" put in. It was during a recession, and the builders were advertising "no frills" specials just to pay the bills, and ride out the storm. I had never had a pool, there wasn't an internet with an awesome TFP forum where members shared their hard earned knowledge, but I knew I wanted water in the back yard. So, we had one of these put in. I then spent 23 years in a love/hate relationship with it. The equipment and plumbing was barely sized for it, and was below "low end". It was placed wrong. The only "automatic" thing was the old style, metal box timer to turn the single speed pump on and off. The shape didn't fit what we wanted to do with it. Being "short", it got too deep too fast for the little ones, and the whole pool was rarely used. Little things, on and on, that we'd never thought about, until we had this big concrete hole in the ground. And, yes it was a "cement pond", kids got wet, had a blast, and we have many good memories from it.
But, lesson learned: you're going to hopefully live a long time with that hole in the ground. If it's the way you "want it", you'll spend more time enjoying it, and less time "what if-ing". Which I've learned the hard way, is way worth a few extra bucks in the front end. Which is the way I'm approaching my own project. I hope it turns out to be a more rewarding experience. And I'll be happy to share that opinion...but it'll take 10 or 15 years to be sure...

Not only that, if you were to eventually sell, having a paradise for a back yard makes things that much more desirable..
I sent you an email....Sorry, was really busy yesterday afternoon, and didn't get a chance to look here..