Hi, welcome to TFP!
One thing guaranteed to cause confusion is trying to take advice from multiple sources regarding a pool. I understand the desire to get all angles, but it really is just people pulling you in different directions. That's what is driving the confusion you're feeling.
So TFP can definitely help you solve this problem, no question. The pool store... maybe. Their track record is not very good and given that their primary business is sales it shouldn't come as a surprise the the solutions are rarely cheap or long lasting. The point is, though, that you need to pick one and go with it. You can't go to the pool store, follow their advice, and then ask our opinion. It doesn't work that way. Nor can you follow TFP and then ask the pool store their opinion. It really does have to be one or the other.
If you want to do it our way (and I hope you do) it's going to require you doing your own testing. Pool store testing is notoriously inaccurate and unreliable. So step 1 will be to acquire one of the kits mknauss posted above. Nothing good can happen without good accurate data to work with, they will provide it.