@Jimrahbe @HermanTX
Here is the additional info, but I want to share an observation. When I turn off the "Filter Pump" in my shortcuts (iAqualink) everything turns off, including the overflow and IFCS. I assume it's a shortcut and I've looked through the iAqualink interface and can't find what that toggle switch directly controls. Where should I be looking?
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The first thing that caught my attention was that Pump 1 - which is your main filtration pump (Pump 1) has the speed for Infloor System (based on your pump speed screen shot of Pump 1) but IFCS is actually run by Pump 2. That also tells me why IFCS is disabled on the Menu Screen. This doesn't seem right and I can look up some more info on this.
Pump speeds might be deceiving. I've changed them to try to get the IFCS to stop getting water all over the coping. I'm pretty good about taking photos before I mess with things too much and found the attached speeds from March. Maybe they make more sense?

Also your Vanishing Edge and Cleaner suction is on the same pump - so there must be a set of dedicated jets (as return to the pool) for the Vanishing Edge. With all of those return lines are there any that look like 2" inch jets in the pool. They would larger ID then a regular pool return jet to allow the return to force water over the vanishing edge.
The only "jets" I have in the pool are the pop-ups for the cleaning system and 4 side jets with directional clear hoods on them. The 4 with clear plastic hoods are on the deep near the IFCS drain and I think the guy told me they are part of the cleaning system and push debris down the walls to the drain at the bottom. There are TONS of pop-ups on all of our flat (steppable or sitable surfaces). Steps have 2 each, there are 2 each on the benches in the spa, there are some through-out on the other various ledges.
In the spa we have what I'd consider normal jets. We have 6 "jets" in the spa. 3 with 7 big holes and 3 with 2 big holes that rotate.
Can you define how many main drain covers are in the pool? They may be round or a long rectangular drain. There could be a suction drain on the wall as well. So look on bottom and on pool sides.
FYI - if there are 2 round drain covers, then they are likely connected and considered one suction set. If it is a long rectangular drain then that would be 1 drain.
Also how many drains are in the basin?
The main pool has one large circle drain looking thing at the deep end. I'm pretty sure this is the IFCS drain. The basin has 3 things: a drain that is in the center of the basin on the wall, and 2 circle drain looking things at the bottom (so likely connected and considered a set?) on the side closest to the overflow and auto-filler. The spa has 1 drain on the wall, one on the floor.
You should never have pool plaster that is not inside the pool. Your wall should be tile... Sigh!!!
Don't get me started on this PB unless you want a really long story. Let's just say there's a reason I'm taking this all on myself instead of calling him.
I assume that if you set it so that the main drain pipe is shut off, the IFCS will run without an overflow over the edge.. And.. if you set it so that valve is set to shut off the "Cleaner" pipe that the main drain pipe will cause the overflow over the edge. Do you know if this correct or not?
I assumed this as well. I can't tell that the valve does anything. These are my observations. Turning off cleaner there is no perceptible difference in the IFCS or the overflow. If I switch off drain, the water levels in the filter basket attached to the pump seems to drop a little, but it also raises and lowers some. It never emptys, just drops a couple of inches and never fully fills. Turning the inlet off empties the basket completely. I don't know if it turns off the IFCS or vanishing edge because I didn't want to risk running the pump dry.
I think it's worth noting here when I turn off "Vanishing Edge" in my iAqualink the vanishing edge stays on, the cleaners stay on, and the pump attached to them stays on.
I think I got all of the questions. Thanks again for helping me with this and let me know if you need more info or videos.