Alright, here are the subs I've used/am using:
Excavation - Nunez Excavation
Plumbing, Steel, and Electric - Alliance
Gunite - Metroplex Gunite
Gas - Used my plumber I use on residential, he begrudgingly complied

Tile, Stone, and Plaster - TNT
Kim - yeah, at least I now have $2,500 worth of peace of mind! We did hit the water table on the last foot or so, so at least I'll feel a little more comfortable that the shell will be surrounded by rock.
MCow - that $40-50k price tag disappeared after week 1 unfortunately. Just don't tell my wife!
LDV - Great idea, I will sign our company up to get wholesale pricing or just have my landscaper order for me (they do about 30 pools a year).
We got the green tag today. I was supposed to be on the schedule for Monday for gunite but when I called to firm up the date they said they'll "let me know when they can get out". Luckily there's no rain in the schedule so I'm not too too worried about it.
Just a few things I've run into -
1) The pool is the right size but it is 1 foot too far to the right, which costs me 1' of walk space. Not the biggest deal in the world, I just wish I'd been there to let the excavators know before it was too late.
2) Didn't realize that Alliance weren't actually licensed plumbers. They don't connect into anything (sewer or gas) so I had to scramble regarding the gas line for the heater. Luckily in my line of work it wasn't too difficult.
3) For the excavation, I should have asked about rock and what the extra charge would be if it was encountered so it wasn't a price they could give after the fact. I think it was still fair, just would have been better to know and be prepared beforehand. I should have asked how long he anticipated the dig taking and how much time he has allotted before there were extra charges.
4) They said they usually tie the bubblers in with the filter pump to keep the water on the shelf moving, but I had them put it on the feature pump with the waterfalls and will just have to program it to kick on at certain intervals.