OK on step #1
OK for Step #2. I have used these
unions for the pump. Or you can use these
type.
For step #3 I do not think you need any further unions in middle of pipe. When you are ready for SWCG you will need to cut pipe to put in the SWCG with its unions.
SWCGs can be installed either horizontally or vertical depending on space. I like horizontal but if you have limited space then vertical is fine. The Pentair IC SWCG should be installed on the vertical leg flowing upwards. Some other SWCGs can be installed on the downward flow leg If they have a separate flow switch that can be placed elsewhere. Just check the manual when you decide which SWCG you purchase.
For Step #4 - I have used reducers, elbows and tees from HD as well as straight pipe. Their unions are a little bulky but I do not think you need any of them anyway. Just ensure they are sch 40 because people just throw any fitting back in a box so don’t trust the box label. I always check the price label on the fitting itself.