Ok, so assuming that replacing the filter/pump isn't an option, here is my recommendation:
1) Read the manual on the Pump/Filter -->
Manual on Filter/Pump page 14. the following is a reprint from the instructions.
2) When you have the time, do the procedure on page 14.
a) Stop the pump.
b) Move the handle to "Backwash."
c) Turn on the pump and run until the water is clear (not perfect, say 80% clearer than the cloudiest you see). Might be 30 seconds to 3 minutes +/-
d) Turn off pump.
e) Turn the handle to "Rinse." Run again until you see it run a bit clear (80% better), likely no longer than 30 seconds to 2 minutes.
f) Turn off the pump.
g) turn the handle to "Filter"
h) turn on the pump
i) NOTE THE PRESSURE.
j) When the filter pressure is 15 PSI higher than reading from i), do this procedure again.
k) replace water as needed.
Follow this procedure and you will clean the filter as often as necessary. Any more backwashing is unnecessary. Let the filter do the job!
This process is the best you can do with the filter you have. Keep the SLAM up.