^ in this case, the article about the two part polymer floc was indeed referring to PRS. Originally, Id been referring to something I read recently but can't find that suggests Alum floc, where you vac to waste, is also supposed to work for crypto removal.
An SWG doesn't require a new or special pump, BUT the run time required to produce adequate FC can affect electrical bills and your friend's pool is larger at 35,000 gallons.
Do you know what brand and rated HP her current pump is? Sometimes its possible to change out a motor for variable speed instead of replacing the entire pump (eg the wet end of the pump where the basket is.)
I am doing a motor upgrade today actually - the variable speed motor was $400 at Inyopools - its a 1.65 Century (AO Smith) that fits a Maxflo (Hayward) pump. The install should be about an hour and a half, according to the installers I hired from a local pool service co. Even running the heater, which requires a much higher flow, I should still be able to save 50% or more on my electric
I'm just letting you know in case you're looking at budget line items to reduce, though there's no reason not to go with a nice Intellifo with its easy automation integration.
If you itemize deductions on your tax returns, you will be able to write off equipment and labor on this project as a medical expense I believe, particularly if your healthcare team advocates hydrotherapy for your daughter. If you have easy access to an accountant who knows your circumstances, you might want to pre-check how these deductions work and what the net impact will be for you tax wise. As you're likely aware, med expenses have to be higher than 10% of your income before the itemized deduction have much impact, but its worth keeping in mind.
In my area, I don't seem to have any difficulty finding pool co labor to install equipment that I research and buy from vendors like Inyo. I download the equipment PDFs and send to them before the call. But I book the service AFTER I purchase the equipment and just say "I have a source for discounted but new equipment I like, would you be willing to install "x-brand & spec" or "Is your company an installer for x-brand of heater/swg/pump etc."
I've never been refused

They want the labor. You will just be later in their priority list because the value of your job is less for them. But in the case of my heater, I saved more than 50% this way, same with my swg.
This works best if you inform yourself on installation a bit (mfgs always have manuals) so that you're vetting the work a bit, and also using a company that deals in the brand. Eg I used a different company with my swg than my heater based on which were authorized installers of respective brands.
Hope those tips help you work up a plan!