I guess there would need to be some connection, but one that allows some movement. I suppose if they were completely independent, one could move and then the pool would be out of position relative to the deck, left, right, high, low, etc. So maybe the coping and 3 or 4 inches of the deck are not touching, so they can expand and contract without cracking, but underneath they are stabilized together with the rebar? Maybe something like that?
More importantly, regarding the OP's original question. Sounds like your crew is on top of things.
But even more importantly, I think it's smart to ask such questions, either of your PB, or here, or both. We get stories here all the time of PBs that do things wrong, or forget things, or don't build to spec, or to code, and if the pool owner doesn't catch it in time, they are forced to live with it, or tear some portion of completed work apart, to start over.
Better to ask now, and make sure everything is correct. You really can't be too careful. You might drive your PB nuts, but so what. He'll peel off in his truck the day he is done, and never look back. You'll be stuck with whatever he's done, or didn't do...