Ok, so the new plan is to bust out around 24" of concrete from the pool wall out, lay the wire mesh and rebar, run a new bond wire that will bond to the pool walls, ladder cups, diving board legs, new wire mesh, rebar, etc...and then pour new concrete and install an expansion joint as well. We are also removing the brick coping because it is terrible and we don't like it and having an aluminum coping installed.
Thoughts? This is going to be pricey BUT it needs to be done for the safety of the family. While this is going on, I'm going to get my friend at the power company to just come out and verify whether or not they have voltage leaking anywhere. Also, one thing I haven't mentioned is I had an electrician come out and we re-worked some of the electrical stuff on the pool equipment that he didn't like and while he was there, we ran a new, twice the size ground wire to my house main panel and added a second ground rod to it as well. He stated that the ground wire that was originally installed on the house was half the size that it should be.