Ok, then this might explain things a bit. I believe high manganese levels will interfere with the DPD test but you should confirm that with Taylor Technologies.
There are two forms (oxidation states) of iron - Fe(2+) and Fe(3+). Iron in the +2 oxidation state is called ferrous iron and is very soluble in water. Iron in the +3 oxidation state is called ferric iron and it can be soluble in well water but only if dissolved oxygen is not present otherwise it forms an insoluble oxide (rust). So what iron filters attempt to do is to inject either air or chlorine or potassium permanganate into the water to oxidize any Fe2+ to Fe3+ and then have the Fe3+ react with injected air to form insoluble rust particles that will get trapped by the filter. Some filters use a specialized sand, called green sand, which help as a catalyst to make the process go faster. Manganese can also be dropped out of solution BUT if the levels are too high, it’s impossible to get all the manganese out.
You need to be really careful with your fill water. Iron stains on a pool surface are treatable but manganese stains (black colored stains) are not easily removed. You need to use as little fill water as possible and let rain water help you as much as possible - you might even consider buying or building a rain harvesting system to collect rain water. You well water, even when treated, is going to be an ongoing source of problems for your pool if the household filter can’t get rid of all the iron and manganese.
One more question - do you know if your well tested positive for iron bacteria? Iron bacteria can sometimes occur in high iron wells and, without proper chlorination, coins get into your pool and cause problems as well. It usually tested for in a well so I would think you’d have been informed. If not, ask your testing company.