I think the booster pump would affect the filter pressure, because it is drawing water from after the filter (or should be). That would look to the gauge as less total resistance, which should drop your filter gauge reading. That's just my hypothesis, but it's born out by your experience. No matter, as Jim points out, less pressure is better.
There is some math, no doubt, but it's not just about the pump and filter. Every pipe in your entire system, its diameter and length and slope, every elbow, every component along the way (filter, heater, check valve, etc) affects flow and pressure. You can see why you're being told every pool is different, and why the math would be challenging to calculate. And since you can't observe the underground pipes and elbows, it'd be pretty much impossible to calculate at this point.
That is all normal and expected. I run about 5 psi. 7-8 is not "really low" at all.
So while the math would be challenging, you don't need any to "calculate" your normal pressure. It's simple. You clean your filter, your pump basket and your skimmer basket(s), turn off any water features, turn off the booster pump, and then observe the gauge. That's it! That's your "clean filter" pressure reading. Then you regularly check your gauge (once a week is fine), under the same conditions (same RPM, clean pump and skimmer baskets, no booster). When the reading gets to be 20-25% higher than your "clean filter" pressure reading, it's time to clean your filter. Letting it get to 20 psi is not ideal. It just puts unnecessary wear and tear on your system, and costs you more money (in pump energy).
That's the general rule. You can clean your filter more often, if you like, but keep in mind it is the cleaning of a filter cartridge that wears it out more than anything else. Plus, a little "dust" on the cartridge membranes actually helps it filter better. Obsessively cleaning a filter is not necessary and is counter productive. So too often or not often enough are both less than ideal, use the 20-25% rule and you'll be fine.