Yeh, I get your concern, and hopefully I can help. Main thing is to not be overly concerned. If pH gets too high, you'll start to get scale. I don't think you have, so it's been fine. The first place is usually the SWC, and/or on the waterline tile. It's fairly easy to watch for.
So try correcting pH just twice a week for a while. Try it for a few weeks, but run your hand over the waterline tile (just in one spot) every day and feel for any spots a bit bigger than dust particles. Have a glance in the SWC cell and see if you see any whiteness on the plates.
The high TA is going to continue for a while, because your pool is new. That aspect will get better. If you want it to get better faster, correct pH down to 7.2 each time.
Hope that helps