I would add this to your steps.
Before opening the air relief valve or the drain plug - do your backwash to get the initial debris out of the system. Note the YT video provided by
@zea3 . Once you do that preliminary backwash.
Turn off pump at the breaker so it cannot come on.
Open the air relief valve (at top of filter), then open the drain as you noted in your steps. this allows the water to drain out of your filter bottom and all pressure is removed.
NOTE - since you have that weird drain plug, Ensure your air relief valve is OPEN. I have found that a long screwdriver fits between those two parallel protruded lines, You can also use a straight rod or similar object. You will have to make several rotations - it is a PITA but does work. Also remember to check the seal on the drain plug and lube it as well before installation.
Then loosen the nut and spring tension on the retainer ring (your step 4)
You may need to push sideways on the top to free it from the seal. Push slightly sideways and pull up. Try not to push on the gauge or air relief valve as you do not want to damage it.
Clean all debris from bottom of filter through the open drain hole. Just use a hose.
You can replace the bottom drain now if that is convenient to do without the filter top on. remember to lube the seal.
Install the new grid assembly
Wipe down the rubber seal - do not stretch it. Verify it is in good condition and no nicks in it. Lube it before placing on bottom half of filter.
Install the top half of filter but have the air relief valve open.
Install your retainer ring and ensure it is properly placed and a snug fit on both halves of the filter.
Ensure your backwash valve is in "Filter Position".
Turn on your pump and let the air exit out of the air relief valve. As soon as water starts to squirt out - close the air relief valve and pressure should build in the filter.
Check for any leaks
Add DE to skimmer
Hope this helps.