We have a new neighbor that is the same age as my youngest daughter, 13. We've invited their family to the pool several times, each time, she ignores my kid and just hangs out with the adults. Lately, our daughter 15 and our younger daughter have started inviting their friends durning the week, it's about 6-10 of them that show up from our neighborhood. You guessed it, our neighbors daughter that has show no interest in befriending our daughter, showed up at our pool yesterday with her mom, dad and older sister to ask me a question about an event coming up, while our kids had friends over. Both of their daughters sat down in one of our chairs and stared at the kids in the pool having a blast. I ignored the whole situation and finally got them to walk with me to the front of the house. I was blown away! I don't know what to tell the family. It's obvious, she wants to hang out too, but for all the wrong reasons. I refuse to let her use my pool unless we invite them as a family or if my kids invite them, but I don't know what to say when they ask me what's going on? If they just showed up like that, I know they will have they will have the nerve to ask me and I can't just come out and say, your daughter it's rude to mine, ignores her and thinks she's better that everyone around her.