Re: Rounding the Corner to a New Pool Build
Thanks Becci. It's been one heck of a ride through this build and then the accident. I am so done with the bike. He has mentioned a retirement bike and it sooooooo is nooooooot gonna happen!!!! No way I can ever see him or another human being in that condition!!!
An update... I took him back to the plastic surgeons today and we got a HUGE thumbs up! Come to find out that the patch on his head is actually cadaver skin which I think is AMAZING! lol He got the majority of the staples out today but the patch is still being held in place with several staples. What will happen is, his body will eventually reject that cadaver skin. It will dry up and just start flaking away. It looks very dark and has adhered nicely to the head wound just like it was intended to do. The dr said that it may get leaky and start draining and to just put gauze on it if it does. Once it starts healing, it will just flake off. I think it's rather interesting how our bodies work in amazing ways, even cadavers. He has also been released to shower when he wants! He was so happy because today was his first shower since 7/3!
He goes back next Tuesday to see the surgeon who actually did the procedure. He is looking at future skin grafting and possibly having an implant placed in his head to have it stretch the skin so that he can have hair back in that spot. He's really missing a significant piece of scalp.

I'm talking 3"x6" area.
We go to see the neurologist in August. I fear that he has suffered some form of memory loss due to the head injury. It seems to be limited to searching for the correct words to use. He knows what he wants to say but can't think of them. Almost like he stops mid sentence and starts fishing for words. Only time will tell on how this will play out. It could have been so much worse!
As far as the pool goes, I had a professional installer come out and give me a bid. He's got 20 years experience and once the bike is paid off, I'll just have him out in August to do the work. I'm just too tired after all of this.
I am grateful for all of you who have prayed with me to get Jim & I through this. It feels so good to know that when I do get to lay down and go to sleep, that he is right there beside me. :-D