I have never lived in a place in the US that didn't have hard water. I know they exist... I think IIRC Florida is such a place, but maybe I am wrong. But having said that my CH isn't drifting upwards as fast as I heard that it happens in most of Arizona so I am holding out hope. (Our little system is a whole lot better than the main Tucson system is, but isn't the softest in the area...) Water Softener salt is indeed about 50% less per unit weight than pool salt is here, though. Hardness in the US varies greatly on the water source. When I lived in Chicago, for example, much of the water was sourced from Lake Michigan which was very soft indeed. The wells in the area? Not so much. Very Hard. They mixed the two where I lived which was interesting. Europe in most areas has much softer water as does Australia apparently.
Yes, rain water is always soft because it's more or less distilled plus whatever pollutants it picks up on the way down which isn't much.
As for TFP? The guidelines are against a lot of the "industry standards" in America too. It's interesting because the sales pitch for salt cells here alone should prove that the TFP methods do work. Effectively you are only substituting electrolysis of the Chlorine from the reverse process from the liquid bleach uses. Honestly, the pitch even here in the desert is "just change out the water every couple of years". well, okay then.... Obviously TFP will work anywhere, though. North America has a lot of places with a lot of Calcium and Magnesium in the water, and fewer places that don't.
Oddly enough back in the old, old days TFP is how pools were managed, especially before CYA. CYA was a great invention, honestly, but it's like religion... it needs to be in moderation...

The same with most specialty pool chemicals. Less is indeed more.