Again thank you all for your input, every single one of your comments has been super helpful in making a decision!
I woke up this morning thinking about what you've all been saying from the beginning... Who is going to use the pool and how will you spend ur time there? So , I realized a couple of things and will greatly appreciate your comments.
I realized my wife and I will be living there, so 80% of the time it'll be for us , on weekends we might get a visitor or two, we have brothers who will most likely want to horse around, play and jump in, we have two elderly who might be too scared to get into the pool for fear of falling even if we make it shallow. No children. And so far I've been trying to accommodate everyone. Am I crazy to eliminate the needs and wants of everyone else except the two of us? I feel like I've been planning on being able to play basketball and volleyball with my brothers when in reality they will probably play a total of 2 minutes before getting tired , they are all fat and lazy.
Here is what the wife and I want:
1.- I want to be able to jump into the pool without breaking my royal butt. No diving , I'm too afraid to break my neck.
2.- I want to be able to fully submerge in water . I'm 6'4''
3.- Wife wants to lounge and a spa. (*Sigh*)
4.- Wife wants to be able to swim but also be able to stand with ease if she gets tired. (She's 5'4'')
5.- She wants a darn sunshelf (I'm against it, takes away from swimming space and I consider it unnecessary)
What do you recommend for our situation? I figure the elderly will love the spa and spend their time there. I figure a 4 people spa will be plenty. NO SUNSHELF. Now can you guys give me some feedback? It's helped me a lot to have ideas bounce back and forth. Thanks!