I am still confused. Are you saying the wind blows FROM south east TO north west? If so, then somewhere near the north west corner would be fine. If you want two skimmers, put them mid way between the north and west walls.
Returns over benches just help keep them clean. It is an option, not a necessity.
Not sure what you mean by this. If you mean a return loop around the pool, I am not a big fan. See this:
I, like most people, have long believed that plumbing loops can help balance return flow through multiple returns in a pool or spa but I was curious as to how much they really help and if there are other ways to balance return flow. So I performed a detailed analysis on 6 different plumbing...
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To equalize flow out of returns, you are better off upsizing the return pipes or using more return pipes.
I would skip the MD. Use 2.5" for each skimmer back to the equipment pad.
MD Myths:
-MDs help keep the pool clean. FALSE. Dump a bucket of dirt on a MD and only about 2" around the MD will be clean.
- MDs improve circulation. Not very much. A return pointed downward or a lower return will do a much better job of circulation.
- They make it easier to drain a pool. FALSE. You can drain a couple of feet but after that the suction head rises and the pump will start leak air in. The best way to drain a pool is using a sump pump.