Joe,
It takes millions of years for rock to become sand.. And if saltwater eats sand, why is there any sand left in the ocean at all.. ?
Our take here at TFP is that the problem is the quality of stone and not the saltwater. Like you, my take is based only upon my experience with the stone I have..
Here is my story and I'm sticking to it..
I bought a house with a pool and had flagstone coping installed as well as new tile and plaster. This was about 14 years ago.. At that time I knew nothing of TFP and the pool was a typical chlorine tablet pool. Within a couple of months some of the flagstone started to shed very thin layers of sand.. Some stones did it and some did not and there was no rhyme or reason as to which stones shed and which did not.. A good stone was often right next to a bad stone.. I assumed this was normal.. A couple of years later I converted over to a SWCG and nothing changed.. The bad stones are still bad and the good stones are still good.. The pool has been a saltwater pool for about 9 or 10 years now and the problem is the same.. Granted this is not a waterfall, but the coping gets plenty of pool water splashed on it.. You'd think that there would be more damage at the entry and exit points, but that is just not true.
I see this the same as me saying you beat your wife and everyone assumes it is true unless you can prove differently.. I should not be allow to say you beat your wife unless I can actually prove it.
Thanks for the pics.. They look pretty much like every pic I have seen of a waterfall wall, saltwater or not..
I agree it would be nice if we had some actual test results that we could compare..
I have my doubts that a sealer will do anything, but it certainly can't hurt.
Thanks for your input.
Jim R.