Yes, that's right folks, VICTORY IS MINE!!!
I have legal insurance through my employer as part of my benefits and city codes/ordinances is part of what is covered 100% so I contacted them. The attorney that I contacted is a sitting councilman in a neighboring city and said he wouldn't take that up /sigh. So, I emailed the city secretary and asked them who handles building codes etc. if I wanted to get a variance or exception. She asked me for what and I basically dumped on her, but added a catch to it that I was only wanting the exception for fences 6' tall or greater (I had two little surprises ready in case they didn't want to grant it). I got a call the next day from the individual who handles the inspectors and spoke with him and he agreed with me that it was common sense for an
existing fence which was now getting a pool that the horizontal cross members didn't matter what side they were on provided the gate was self latching and the doors/windows leading to the pool from the house had an alarm. He said he would instruct his inspectors as such and put in the exception city wide.
He then took away one of my little surprises when he confirmed with me that previously the city had been using the 2006 IRC-PS and in December adopted the 2018 version, and that the language from the 2006 code regarding fences was the same as it was for 2018. He also confirmed to me that prior to adopting the 2018 standard there was an existing exception for fences 6' tall or greater. So, due to that he didn't have any problems implementing that same exception for the 2018 standards as well. That was one I was holding in my pocket that I didn't find out until 3 days ago, just before I contacted the attorney.
If they hadn't changed it, I would had my personal lawyer find out the sold houses since December with a pool that had the horizontal cross members on the opposite side and didn't sell their house "As Is". As I was going to force the city to make them flip their fence, and all heck would have broken loose at that point because the town I live in is a bedroom community where 2 of the 7 sitting council members are real estate agents. I'm fairly certain the last thing you want as a council member is to get sued by your client you represented. Not sure it would have worked, and i'm glad I didn't have to go that route, but it beats barbwire
At any rate, this saga is done, I've won a common sense victory for the people of my city. To all who responded and gave insight, I thank you for your input it was much appreciated.
Now my reasons, for going this route for the exception were primarily cost related. Many people who said just put up the verticals on their side and to be honest if I had been forced into doing something, that is what I would have done most likely. When I explained to the city that i've got 390 linear feet of fencing and each 5.5" x 6' board was $3.29 at the local big box store, it was going to cost me just shy of $2800 to go that route he understood exactly where I was going. Either way i'm grateful for the support here and for my city on common sense ordinance.