Acid washing removes plaster. That's how it eliminates stains. Not so much by attacking only the stain (though it can, to some degree), but more by taking a layer of plaster off to which the stain is attached. Acid washing plaster in great shape can (probably will) leave it rougher. Acid washing a worn out, rough surface will not make it smoother. Even if the acid wash is done perfectly, you're just advancing the demise of your plaster. If done poorly, it'll finish off what's left of your pool's surface and then you'll have no choice but to replace it (which is what happened to me, and my plaster was only 6 years old!). You're approaching the end-of-life of your plaster, and it needs to be replaced (as you know). Sanding is an interesting solution, but again, you're removing plaster from plaster that is just about done, so you can do the math on that. Paint? Yikes, I wouldn't. Either live with it as is for as long as you can/want, or do it right.
Another "side effect" of the acid washing is blistering. Small bubbles forming in the plaster surface, which later "pop" and leave pock marks. Mine were about 1" in diameter. I'm not clear on if that was from the acid, or the emptying of the pool, probably both. Sometimes it's the weight of the water keeping your plaster in place. Relieving that weight can cause defects to appear. Whatever you do, get the water back in the pool asap.
By the way, when I had mine replaced, I had bids on a few surfaces. I have a 12K-gal pool, Pebble was $9K (which is what I chose, so that I wouldn't have to do it again in my lifetime), but plaster was only about $5500, if I remember right. And that included a full chip out of the old plaster (which is what you want). Pools require regular maintenance. You're just up against one of the big-ticket items.
$5500 is nothing to sneeze at, but if this helps: When I had my pool redone, they removed my drains, which I just love (safer, looks better, better for brushing and vac). And they added "modern" eyeball returns to what was previously just sawed off PVC, which allows me to better fine-tune my circulation. So I got a "better" pool out of the job, in addition to the new surface. You can even have them reshape things a bit: add or adjust a bench or modify stairs, add a ladder or a hand rail, etc. Things that might better justify the expense...