To confirm, I turn the dial of the filter to waste while the pump is working? Do I still connect the vacuum hose to the vac plate that's above the skimmer pipe or do I connect the hose to the pump?
First turn pump off, then set to waste and turn it back on. Once it's pumping, you take the vacuum with hose, get the hose connected to the plate, get it all full of water with vacuum down deep, and then put the vac plate over the skimmer basket. Goal is to keep it wet, don't let it take in much air.
1) I see little chlorine loss from day to day. It is at shock level and I doubled the amount to help the process. To save on the reagent drops, I am testing FC at 5ml x1 instead of 10 ml x .5. An expert suggested this during the SLAM process. I added 8 gallons of 10% liquid chlorine 2 days ago and yesterday the k2006 would not turn colorless after 70 drops at 5ml. I will do another test after the sun moves away from the pool
If it is indeed at 70, that's crazy. A pool that green should have massive amounts of FC loss per day. I would not let it stay that high... keep it at SLAM level or slightly above, but this doesn't make sense! And yes, 5mL=1ppm per drop is the right sample size for now. Do you have any CCs?
2) No, I have not deep cleaned the filter. I was advised this can be done after SLAM.
Normally, yes. But given there seem to be some filtering issues here, you might consider doing this. If your filter is easy enough to open up, it may be worth doing, considering you have no way of knowing what you're dealing with here. For all we know there could be no sand in it at all! Probably not that bad, but it could at least be channeled.
3)My last CYA test 4 or 5 days ago showed around 30 or a bit below that. I think I'm good here because I read during SLAM it shouldn't be too high.
That's a good number to be at. You may want to re-measure this at some point during the SLAM, but right now even if it were crazy high your FC numbers are good enough.
5) I check the FC level every day and it has been consistently over 15 for about 2 weeks. I was brushing every day until I injured my back on Monday. My daughter brushed yesterday.
Ideally, you start a SLAM by checking almost hourly until FC holds at an hour, and then move to every 2 hours, then 4, etc. The goal is to keep it at SLAM level as permanently as possible. However... in this case it looks like it's holding pretty well, which doesn't match what's happening visually. I really have no idea here. Ideally brushing/vacuuming would be many times per day too, but obviously that's not possible for you right now, and either way that just helps it go faster - it should still be at least getting blue at this point.
6) The return in the deep end of the pool is still not working.
I think this is what I'd be most worried about... there should be no way for this stuff to get blocked. Is the pipe leading to that return at all easy to get to? I'd say snake it out or something like that, if you've verified the valve is both working and set correctly. There really should be nothing that could block a return so completely, outside of a plug or something.
Honestly, at this point if a filter deep clean didn't show much promise, I'd start draining a bit at a time. Vacuuming to waste could be a big help, just keep an eye on what makes its way into the skimmer/pump baskets and keep it cleaned. Kind of like a drain/refill but targeted on the problem areas.