If you do infact have the rs485 hooked up on the feature pump, that is likely part of your issue. The easytouch is trying to activate the pump thru rs485 while also turning on that relay.
Making the assumption again that yellow is the feature pump, you would want to do one of the following:
1. Move the two yellow wires on relay 3 from the load side to line side. The advantage to this is if you have anything later that you want to add that is dependent on the power state of the feature pump you have the load side available for this.
2. Disconnect all 4 yellow wires and wire nut the wires on screw 1 and 2 together and screw 3 and 4 together. Advantage to this is you now have an additional relay available for anything else.
3. Remove the wires on screw 1 and 3 from both the relay and the breaker, move the wires from screw 2 and 3 on the relay directly to the breaker. Advantage to this is like 2 above as well as removing the wire nut as a potential future failure point - you need to be able to properly torque the wires on the breaker to do this.
Last thing I'll throw out is while the above is definitely an issue (you can confirm in the easytouch and or intelliflo manual) since yiu can now activate the circ pump from the easytouch but not from screen logic, you may just need to reboot the screenlogic adapter which should be connected to your router.