Thanks for all the guidence , I have put info and some follow-up questions below in purple.
Having the PB provide an ample supply of whiskey is hardily endorsed. It gives comfort, contemplation, and occasionally disconnection. Happy to be an expert witness in this regard.
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I've encountered your kind of exhaustion before and can assure you there is an end. Now to specifics.
1) The supplier's stone guy strongly suggested I immediately do a non acidic alkaline wash that they have to maybe try to help the stone , He indicated this should be done sooner than later . Not sure why?
Acid, when dry, will leave crystals that can be reactivated with water. This is why you neutralize, which means you balance out the pH. The number 7 on that scale is what you are aiming for. This can be tested with pH strips (not pool ones) but laboratory grade. Inexpensive. Happy to explain how to use once what you've got them. It might be obtained at lab supply houses in Dallas. Certainly on Amazon (
Amazon.com : hydrion test strips).
I will order the test strips and look forward to the coaching on how to use them. The stonescapes refers to pool plaster type they will be doing when they plaster my pool ON WEDNESDAY and then they Acid Wash the pool plaster on THURSDAY and and fill the pool, I tell you this as my thought was to try and get the PH neutralizer onto the deck before the new plaster and water goes in the pool on Wednesday I did not want any of the solution ending up in the new pool on the new plaster while I am also trying to balance water for first time. Another question: does the Ammonia wash have to be repeated more than once ? It's possible that it needs a second wash
You don't need something from the supplier. Use Ammonia, lemon scent, mixed in water. I would be using pH strips to measure the acid in the stone, the ammonia in the water, and the stone once more after the rinse. I will fill in the details when you're ready. Sooner is better but the damage is done so you could walk to this solution.
I think sooner, like tomorrow, early evening or Tuesday AM. What would be the ratio of water to Ammonia if I am mixing this up. How best to apply / rinse etc.
2)This installation was not very good, ( see below) in many areas the pavers are tight and touching with no visible space, in other areas there are wider gaps that need to be filled. The sub did sand once and 99% is gone ( see pics ) The PB wants the sub to sand the lines in between the pavers to address this on TUESDAY ( before plaster wednesday) . I really don't want the sub touching the deck and I am not sure what will happen if I do not allow this and just leave it as is. Any feedback or advice ? I am really at a loss.
Are the edges of the tiles straight and clean or distressed and rough?
Some are very clean and straight and tight to the next stone, in some places they are a little rough not a lot .
If the former then the narrow joints could be widened with a diamond wheel (in the hands of professional) to the width appropriate for cementitious grouting. If the latter then the approach is a couple of steps longer.
Any sense on how long I can wait to grout or sand , any issues or damage since these are on concrete applied with mortar? Can I wait on this step? In a lot of places it looks like there is no place for the sand to go , no spaces, in a handful of places there are the wider gaps
The reply to the PB should be NO!!! Don't let them push you around. I'm not quite the expert here but the thought is if the sand were used what's to stop it from being blown or washed into the pool? Now or in the future? I'd tell him no.
That is what I was thinking , none of the sand stayed in the pavers the first time he did it
START A PAPER TRAIL. Everything is in writing. Email him that sanding is are proceeding Tuesday. Phone conversations are summarized in emails as well. Have witnesses when you meet with PB if you can.
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3. Stonescapes plaster is scheduled for WEDNESDAY
I don't know to what this refers and where it butts up to the flat stone. My gut says no. However, you could ask the PB if he will imdenify you against any unforseen repairs to the flatwork that would, as a by-product, damage the stonescape. In writing of course.
This is the plastering process for the pool; the entire deck and coping is covered in plastic during this process .
4. Acid wash and start to fill on THURSDAY
This is referring to what? The pool, the stonescape, the flatwork? Imagine worst case scenarios, say , full rip out and reinstall or sand blasting. Could you imagine any ancillary damage caused be such work? if so, then stop everything until all is sorted out. The PB will threaten the scheduling, talk about industry standards, blah, blah, blah. There are two agendas working. The PB wants the problem to go away; you want the pool of your dreams. Yours is the superior position. This is where you come from. I
do not think getting the pool plastered and filled with water could do further deck damage as the deck is covered during the entire process. (Unless having the deck being covered in plastic for a day or so in the heat will cause issues) The only issues will be how to handle the pool with water in it when we sand or grout the pavers, and /or restore. that process, as you've surmised, would have little or no impact. My hesitancy is focused on the work that may have to be done on the decking. It will generate dust but this, too, can be handled.
I know you want them gone but you are in the middle so you've got to slug on bit farther. Ask the PB for his liability insurance certificate. In fact ask to have his agent isssue a certificate with you and your husband named as additionally insured.
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Don't Pay. Period. This is your club. I presume that Texas has consumer laws, see what applies to you. I don't know if contractor licenses are required in this state. If so, then contact the licensing dept. that handles such things and file a complaint.
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I got tricks for that.
GREAT I know I will need to learn those tricks !
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