I posted a thread almost a year ago about how "stingy" I was with my pool (click here). I thought I'll take everyone's advise and consider opening my pool to a religious leader and his family (or whoever), but I have yet to do that.
I recently told someone (yesterday) that this person from the church was not invited to my home for any pool party. I feel like "Crud" for saying that but I didn't want to open a can of worms if I said "yes, invite them". I'm afraid that this invite would give more reason for more people to come over. ?
I actually said some nasty words when a relative of mine insisted I invite this person to my home.
Ugh... I should enjoy the pool with people, but I don't know why I'm so stringy when it comes to my Oasis. The older I get, the less I want to hang out with PEOPLE (which is odd).?
When am I going to be free of this "stingy" behavior of mine. I don't even swim a lot in the summer. I just hang out near the pool. Should I suck it up and just INVITE them already and call it a day. So what if they want to come back for some more fun, right? I shouldn't be such a "nasty" person when it comes to my Oasis, right? Ugh. I just can't seem to do it.
Mind you..summer isn't even here yet, and I'm already getting harassed about this pool.
Hah..what would be funny is if one of the church members read this thread and calls me....
I recently told someone (yesterday) that this person from the church was not invited to my home for any pool party. I feel like "Crud" for saying that but I didn't want to open a can of worms if I said "yes, invite them". I'm afraid that this invite would give more reason for more people to come over. ?
I actually said some nasty words when a relative of mine insisted I invite this person to my home.
Ugh... I should enjoy the pool with people, but I don't know why I'm so stringy when it comes to my Oasis. The older I get, the less I want to hang out with PEOPLE (which is odd).?
When am I going to be free of this "stingy" behavior of mine. I don't even swim a lot in the summer. I just hang out near the pool. Should I suck it up and just INVITE them already and call it a day. So what if they want to come back for some more fun, right? I shouldn't be such a "nasty" person when it comes to my Oasis, right? Ugh. I just can't seem to do it.
Mind you..summer isn't even here yet, and I'm already getting harassed about this pool.
Hah..what would be funny is if one of the church members read this thread and calls me....