This is kinda like asking who likes pizza, mexican, or burgers/fries. I mean...they are all awesome and how do you pick a winner?
We tend to like having people at our house, and in our experience, people hang out in the shallow end and near the steps. We have a 4'x16' second step (water about 15" deep) that is great for one of those cheapie Adirondack chairs. We have an 11' wide shallow end. So plenty of room to just hang out or lounge. I also put a 20" wide, 16' long bench in the deep end for more lounging.
We are not tall and we like warm water. Water depth in the deep end is 5'2"...plenty for cannonballs, jumping and catching footballs, and I can stand on tip-toe and keep my mouth/nose out of the water.
I love diving, but not that much. We are members of our neighborhood pool that has swim lanes, 10' deep end, 3' diving board, slide, volleyball courts, snack shack, etc. It is a 2 minute drive. When we want to do that stuff, or otherwise hang out with large crowds, we shall head to the pool.
When we want coffee on a Saturday morning after our family jog, Im going to be sitting in my adirondack chair on my ledge with my boys doing cannonballs. We also spend a lot of time on the lake. Pizza, mexican, or burgers...well, Im talking about spending the morning on the lake, afternoon at neighborhood pool, and head home to grill burgers or order pizza and spend the late afternoon and evening in our pool. I mean, there is no such thing as too much water, is there?
