Another thought on this.
I usually do what you did to a small degree. In other words, I leave the suction cracked a tiny tiny bit. Not for slight waterfall effect, but for another reason. It helps with water displacement when people get out of the spa.
You know how when 4 people get in, and then get out, you water level is obviously 5" or so lower...
Well if you keep a slight crack in the suction so a drop is still coming in from the pool, it will slowly keep refilling itself.
It is very slow, but at least if you have a lot of people in and out of the spa all day you won't have the water level getting lower and lower. When you do this, the water just trickles down the spillover. Its not enough for any type of waterfall effect. Another benefit is that you get some fresh water in the spa throughout the day.
The only negative to this is that sometimes the water coming through the jets will feel a little cooler since you are pulling some pool water through it. But it isnt really noticable if you only have it cracked a tiny bit.
Now if you turn the filter off with it like this, the water will slowly drain from the spa and go to the level of the pool the same way it is happening with you. Just a bit slower since the valve is more closed off. But the next morning you will see the same exact result.
Good luck! IMO spill over spas are the greatest thing in the world. I just hate closing it for the winter
