So, I realize that this is not a construction forum, but I looked for one and many were for professionals only and the one I found was for DIYers and they were giving advice I knew was not good (didn't have an understanding of the importance of the high water weight). So, I'll ask here since there are so many knowledgeable people on this forum.
I decided that the road-base-with-cement-top-layer would be a mess and look bad.
We also remeasured the yard, tree, tree roots and found the level (only 9.5' diff in elevation), so we can make a "sandbox" a bit larger to accommodate a 1.5xwall-height of clearance around pool but only if we have a wall that is 6-7" wide. SO I am trying to figure out the strongest material for a 6-7" wall. (Besides poured concrete)
Also, my husband said it's not realistic to try to build something that could be removed when we move or our kids go to college. It would just be used as a patio. So now I am not against something more permanent (e.g. a mortared stone wall) and have accepted that the cost of whatever we do will be higher.
So, I am taking 3 bids, including from a landscaping guy who does most any material, including segmental retaining wall (SRW) masonry blocks (e.g. Pavestone), and another from a guy who does mortared stone, either limestone or oklahoma stone. I've kind of ruled out lumbar/timber/RR ties for not being as strong.
So, my new questions are:
1) Any idea what material is strongest? I spent quite a bit of time googling but they only ranked retaining wall materials by durability. I did read that wood/timber/RRties are not as strong, but couldn't find out if SRW blocks/Pavestone vs mortared real stone is stronger. The only indicator is that SRW are meant for low walls, but I'm not about mortared stone.
For Pavestone, I like this one, "RockWall":
Pavestone RockWall 17.5 in. x 7 in. x 6 in. Palomino Concrete Retaining Wall Block-79881 - The Home Depot
but it does have cavities (maybe fill in with roadbase material?)
Also, I haven't found the geotextile product for Pavestone. But does Geotex work for roadbase? Isn't it meant more to add strenth to soil?
2) Is mortared stone a bad idea?
I know it is more expensive, but I need the strongest material (and it is more attractive to me - not crazy about the SRW/Pavestone)
I read that you have to be careful of water accumulating behind it, but
a) I also read to make fill as high as wall so rain water will spill over wall and not accumulate inside wall
b) I was also thinking that a reason for using road base (crushed limestone screenings to dust) besides being stable and holding the weight is because it is more impermeable to water...?
I also read that mortared stone it can shift and mortar crack.
On the other hand, I think the SRW units (concrete retaining wall blocks like Pavestone) can shift without being as unsightly and also allow for water drainage...?
3) I read online that limestone is very susceptible from staining from other liquids. I am thinking it would not be a good material. I hope to have a saltwater pool, but am thinking either saltwater or chlorine splashout/footprints would not be good for limestone. i hope it would be ok for Oklahoma stone.
Anyone have experience/thoughts on any of this? I don't want to have a stone mason come out if having mortared stone is not a good idea.
Thanks for any help!
Nina