So I was in the pool all weekend... Literally over 12 hours in 3 days!

Water felt great, looked great, and the company had a blast as well.
Friday night the water was cold, and still a little dirty. As I was having friends over I really wanted it to sparkle, so I took some "drastic measures."
I was terrified to mess with my filter as I thought I was sure to screw something up. But I took the risk, unhooked the filter, removed the top and got the garden hose out.
After a solid hour of running the garden hose in the filter, and reaching my hand in clearing the clumps of sand/dislogding debris there was still a lot of gunk coming out. After about another hour it wasn't as bad, and I was beat! I followed the directions to turn the water flow back up and ran it over night Friday (been on 24/7 anyways.) Saturday I woke up and it was 200% better.
I can't imagine how much faster I could have gotten it ready had i tried this sooner, but in any event, it was ready when I needed it! Pool is maintained at 80 degrees, looks amazing, feels amazing, and I wanted to say thank you for everyone on the forums help, guidance, and experience. Without it I would have spent a fortune and known nothing about what was going on.
Now that the hard part is done (ha!) It is time to turn the money expendatures to landscaping it! YAHHHOOOO here's to an amazing summer!