j,
Welcome to TFP... a great place to find the answers to all your "Sandy" questions...
I agree with Tim about changing the sand....
But, I have the Pentair CCP-520 cartridge filter... I clean it twice a year, but then my pool never closes. If I closed, like I am sure you do, then I would only clean it at closing...
The maintenance difference between your sand filter and my cartridge filter is that you have a little pain every few weeks (to back wash) and I have a much larger pain twice a year...
It takes me about 2 hours to disassemble the filter, clean each of the four cartridges, reassemble the filter, and then start the pool back up. It is not a very hard task, but takes a little time and you need to plan on getting wet... The cartridges cost quite a bit more than sand... I have yet to replace them, and based upon how they currently look after 4 or 5 years, I expect to get a good 10 years out of them.
I have two DE filters at other pools and only clean them twice a year... From a cleaning point of view, there is not much different between the DE and cartridge. If and when they bite the dust, I will replace them with cartridges filters.. Cartridge filters have no multiport valve, so the plumbing is simpler and just one less thing that can go bad.
If you have to backwash often, then I doubt that the problem is the sand or the type of filter... Sparkling water comes from having the right chemical levels in your pool water and not because of the filter.
If you want to know more about how to keep your water TFP clear.. just let us know.
Thanks for posting,
Jim R.