I wanted to give everyone an update, and maybe some hope to those starting out.
I bought the Harbor Freight submersible pump for $60, and the 25 foot long 1.5" heavy duty hose they sell. I got a hose clamp from Home Depot to attach (pump does not come with one). The hose fit a bit loose, but the clamp held it on anyway.
I did three 25% water changes at night over a period of several weeks. I did it at night to prevent the plaster from cracking from drying out and baking in the sun. I also occasionally sprayed down exposed plaster during the partial drains to keep the old plaster moist.
Once the pool drained a bit, I changed the intake valve to spa only to drain down the spa. That got me about another 500 gallons.
It took about four hours to drain, and about 2.5 hours to refill. I stayed up for the draining, but went to sleep with a 2 1/2 hour wakeup alarm set. One time I slept through the alarm, and the pool was over filled, but at least did not overflow (close though). It's not easy getting up in the middle of the night. I don't have any kids, but this much be what it's like to have a baby. I guess my pool is my baby.
So here are my new numbers after the latest fill:
FC 3
CC 0
CH 350 (started out at 750)
TA 110
CYA 60 (started out at 160)
pH 7.7
I added some acid and bleach this morning and will retest after it settles.
Pool still has some stains, and the overall look is still not bright. It was suggested on this forum to run a low pH of about 7.0-7.2 for a while, which I am doing, although the pool seems to eat pH for lunch. I'm really going through it. I get a lot of afternoon wind, and my spa has a spillway, which may account for some of the acid use.
Overall the water is clearer, I have less algae, and it is easier to keep the water in balance. I'm making headway.