Ok, gauge arrived.Vacuum gauge screwed into the front drain plug.
However, be very careful as the drain plug hole is plastic and the pressure gauge is 1/4" NPT brass and it can easily crack the threaded plastic hole.
And I also tried to REALLY get the filter clean. I think clogged filter is the issue. I've been putting all kinds of granules like calcium into the pool, and thick liquid CYA into the skimmer to get everything balanced... so I'm probably just clogging it up.
Plus the pool was a freakin mess to begin with, with all the dirt and gravel and stuff at the bottom. The pool company vacuumed most of it out but still. Been cleaning the filter every day but maybe not well enough?
So yesterday when I realllllly cleaned it out good, the salt system was able to run at the 1725 rpm for about half the day, then I bumped it up to the next speed of 2300 rpm (I have not yet had time to manually play with settings between).
Today I cleaned it again and its back to running at 1725 rpm at the moment.
These are pics of the filter gauge and suction pressure gauge at 1725 RPM.
During the startup/priming, the needle on the suction pressure gauge was vibrating between 0-2.5 but then dropped to a steady zero at the 1725 rpm.

