This is likely easy, my guess is they only hooked up the firemans switch and did not put the heater on the rs485 bus. If they did add it to the rs485 bus , they may not have activated it in the heater (which stupid enough requires you to disconnect it from the rs485 bus, activate it, then reconnect)
Actutors you should be fine as i5ps will handle 4 by default.. Relays will depend on how the lights are hooked up. If all the lights are on the same transformer/relay, then you likely still have an available relay or two.
Thats what I would do (and how my solar is run). With the solar, once i added the 3/4- stone you cant even see the pipes running across on the ground
Thanks for all the advice. I'm 100% certain I can do the bypass myself and 90% certain I can do the rest. I've got the parts on the way. Just waiting for nice(r) weather.