Final bid from Foley Pools in McKinney Texas who so far has been great to work with. Nothing started but got a little scared telling a friend my pool was $103k without additional patio build and they thought it was high after building two pools with Robertsons. I know get multiple estimates and I am but do not expect thousands difference. I would greatly appreciate all of your insights as this seems to be THE place for info. Be kind. First pool, first post. 
size is 32 x 16 plus spa of 36 feet. depth is 3.5-4.6-6. Surface area is 519 soft. Perimeter is 117 and 2 anti vortex drains. Pump is Pentair Inteliflo 3050 VS.SVRS. Filter is Pentair 60 sq feet DE. Was going with Nature 2 but this post has talked me into SWG which I added today. Pebble tech standard stone for coping. Cleaner is Polaris 280 3/4 HP Booster pump 4 glow bites. Easy touch 8 for the controller ScreenLogic. Deck is textured mat 1789 sq feet.
2 fire bowls and one larger 10 foot long fire feature making three total at a cost of $5,150. Outdoor kitchen (island with Blaze Grill and a drawer and door) $8,715. Combined the above with the pool you are at $103,635. Or pool by itself without the kitchen is $89,590.
My main question/concern is does this sound reasonable? We have an acre backyard and the home is higher end custom build but I don't want any company to look at the house and say "o.k let's see what we can get." The other concern is the depth? Is that deep enough mainly for my two kids 7 and 9 and lastly, what have I missed or over done? My highest regards to you all and I hope to someday return the favor with anything I can add but am quite green still.
size is 32 x 16 plus spa of 36 feet. depth is 3.5-4.6-6. Surface area is 519 soft. Perimeter is 117 and 2 anti vortex drains. Pump is Pentair Inteliflo 3050 VS.SVRS. Filter is Pentair 60 sq feet DE. Was going with Nature 2 but this post has talked me into SWG which I added today. Pebble tech standard stone for coping. Cleaner is Polaris 280 3/4 HP Booster pump 4 glow bites. Easy touch 8 for the controller ScreenLogic. Deck is textured mat 1789 sq feet.
2 fire bowls and one larger 10 foot long fire feature making three total at a cost of $5,150. Outdoor kitchen (island with Blaze Grill and a drawer and door) $8,715. Combined the above with the pool you are at $103,635. Or pool by itself without the kitchen is $89,590.
My main question/concern is does this sound reasonable? We have an acre backyard and the home is higher end custom build but I don't want any company to look at the house and say "o.k let's see what we can get." The other concern is the depth? Is that deep enough mainly for my two kids 7 and 9 and lastly, what have I missed or over done? My highest regards to you all and I hope to someday return the favor with anything I can add but am quite green still.