Hi AmyJo,
Installing or renovating a pool is a pretty intense process. And an expensive one at that. So, I don't think you are taking it WAYYYY too seriously. This is your home and you want things done right, and the process to be as smooth as possible. So freakout, vent, or whatever, that is what we are here for. I think if I weren't able to "share" and learn on TFP, I would be a nervous wreck. :shaking:
Thanks for the visual. That totally makes sense to have an additional step there to make it easier to get in and out of your pool. Aesthetically, I'm not a fan of handrails, but safety first, especially because your stairs are so narrow. What ideas did you have for a handrail?
By the way, will you be using your pool for swimming laps and flip-turning? If not, maybe you could make that entire end of your pool steps, for a dramatic entrance. You're already waiting for that one step to cure, so it won't increase the time, but it will require more tile. Just a thought. :idea: