The latest relay survived another week. Maybe I really did just get unlucky 2 weeks in a row.
What automation do you have?
What relay part numbers did you get?
Check control voltage to the relay.
Both the original and replacement relays have the same part number, G7L-2A-BUBJ-CB, but the original says "Coil: 24VDC" under the part number, but the new units say "Coil: 200-240VAC". It sounds like the control voltage is different for the two, doesn't it?
When I put a multimeter on the control wires (coming from the panel) I was seeing a solid 24V DC.
That part number isn't complete. The one you want should be G7L-2A-BUBJ-CB-DC24. That relay is available in multiple coil voltages and the last part of the part number specifies the voltage.
G7L is the relay type, 2A is the contact rating, B means screw terminals, UB means upper bracket, J means it has a test button, an 80 after the J would indicate approvals, CB describes the insulation, and DC24 specifies 24VDC.