I may have missed it, sorry if I did. Check continuity of the equipotential bonding grid and the metal housing of the pump motor and other equipment associated with the flow of water. i.e. heater if you have one. Have you taken a long enough piece of wire #14 thhn would suffice. Connect one end of your meter (set to continuity) to the connection point on the pump motor and the wire to the other lead of the meter and walk around the pool and touch all the metal parts around the pool and in the pool. This can tell you if any piece of equipment or structure is not connected to the grid. Has the pump been replaced if it has been make sure your wire has been reconnected to the metal housing of the pump.
You can get stray voltages from other sources that's why they have to set up equipotential planes in barns because cows were getting shocked and not milking. The equipotential plane around your pool if connected properly should remove all stray voltages. Your equipotential plane needs to go somewhere or it can't function to remove stray voltages or set everything to an equal potential. IF there are no connections the grid is floating it is of no use to eliminate stray voltages. It is not required to be extended to an equipment grounding conductor unless you have a double insulated pump motor and no other equipment in the system. In a sense you are required to indirectly conect it to an EGC through the metal housings of the equipment or if you are using a double insulated pump motor then you are required to connect it directly to the EGC of the motor circuit if there is no other equipment connected to an EGC. So yes it has to be tied indirectly or directly tied to the EGC under certain circumstances.
680.26(b)(6)(a) Double-Insulated Water Pump Motors. Where a doubleinsulated
water pump motor is installed under the provisions of
this rule, a solid 8 AWG copper conductor of sufficient length
to make a bonding connection to a replacement motor shall be
extended from the bonding grid to an accessible point in the
vicinity of the pool pump motor. Where there is no connection
between the swimming pool bonding grid and the equipment
grounding system for the premises, this bonding conductor
shall be connected to the equipment grounding conductor of
the motor circuit.
I would try a jumper wire from the grid to the ground bar of the sub panel and see if the voltage drops.
I have seen and dealt with harmonics in a building with a cube farm. Where one floor had 2.5 volts between the neutral and the EGC (not the same as your bonding grid around the pool but still the same potential because they should be connected at the pump motor) on the 3rd harmonic 180 Hz not the 60Hz the power company supplies. All electronic equipment computers, leds under cabinet lighting & lamps in fixtures if leds or compact fluorescent, electronic ballasts, TVs, stereos everything electronic will cause this voltage on the third harmonic. If you live near a google or amazon lets say they could be pouring this back onto the power grid if they do not have the proper filters to remove it. NOT saying this is the answer just something to consider.
Mike Holt testing bonding.
NEC for swimming pools.