Bonding your pool is a good idea, whether it's code in your area or not. You have two requirements to satisfy: (1) the best way to bond your pool water and its systems, and (2) what the inspector wants to see to sign you off. They may or may not be the same thing.
For #1: Since Intex was no help, perhaps someone here can make suggestions. Or you can hire an electrician who specializes in pool electrical (that's important) and have him do the bonding, or work with you to do it (he does the consulting and final hookup, you dig (or whatever)).
For #2: Did you ask the inspector what he wants to see? If not, can you? That's how I handle inspections. Typically, I try to coerce the inspector to do a "pre-inspection" (which they do where I live) to go over the project and to learn exactly what he is going to be looking for. That saves he and I from going round-n-round, and keeps me from having to do things multiple times. Since you're past that point with your guy, call him to discuss exactly what would satisfy him. Just be prepared, these guys don't always know how to do everything they inspect, they rely on engineers and contractors to know how to do things, then they just spot check the work. He might cover the tracks of his lack of know-how with something like "Hey, it's not my job to consult. You do it right, to code, then I'll take a look." It's not a perfect system... but if you get a decent guy and be polite, he might want to help you out.