In the last pictures that Beez posted the middle of the steps are lighter. It seems to me if, in that area, it was wearing through, you would see the grey showing through the white plaster as that middle section more than likely gets the most "foot traffic". It looks like the "foot traffic" is keeping the area scrubbed down some. I don't know about the picture of the sides though.
You can get a small brush, utility brush, that you can screw a wood pole into, specifically for scrubbing during acid wash, etc. It has what looks like natural bristles. I have purchased those at HD or Lowe's. The pole is not very long. It sure saves the back.
In my pictures, note the mottled scaling. I didn't want to do acid washing on them, too much, as the acid removes the exposed plaster too, which is very evident because the runoff is dark blue. I can't remember exactly how, but the acid working reacts differently on the plaster vs on the scale. I'm, later, going to be posting some pics of pool while we were doing the acid wash. I have one really good one that shows some up close scaling on the pool side in deep end. It looks very different than the scaling on the steps.
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