- Nov 12, 2017
- 12,679
- Pool Size
- 12300
- Surface
- Plaster
- Chlorine
- Salt Water Generator
- SWG Type
- Pentair Intellichlor IC-40
That is exactly the right approach, IMO, and what I was getting at. You give the neighbor every opportunity to do the right thing, starting with a face-to-face. Then a letter. All before you "turn him in" or engage a lawyer. The letter itself is a salvo, and one that can be misconstrued and resented. That's why I think the face-to-face comes first. If he ignores all that, then it's open season. That may be a foregone conclusion, but even if the conversation and the letter don't work, you can feel good about having done the right thing. Do unto others...I agree with all of the posts above that you need to contact the neighbor. You did once and got blown off. You can try a second time. If you get blown off again, then I would use @ajw22 's route of a certified letter.
Remember, it's not just the one neighborhood relationship you're trying to protect. What's about to happen will spread like fire up and down the street. He'll tell his side, you'll tell yours. You want to be on the right side.
Just projecting here. My neighborhood is awesome and I value those relationships highly. We help each other. Look out for each other. Guard each other's homes, etc. These relationships can be beneficial for decades, but resentments can outlast 'em. I might even consider helping with expenses before I let something like this turn into a feud. It's not always just about the money or even who was right.