Even though I'm really late saying it, the replies are appreciated everyone. Until tonight I had been too busy to try fixing the heater, for over a month! Not that it didn't still cross my mind. I'm having a party in 10 days and would love to surprise everyone with it in working order, so i got to fiddling with it this evening and I've made some major progress I believe!
I got to reading over your BBQ lighter trick idea ps0303, thought about buying one tomorrow, then just decided to try a flaming stick. hehe.. I got the spark to shut off and a blue flame to burn in its place. Obviously some gas is flowing, even if i couldn't really smell it. I quickly grabbed my phone and started rambling. Check out the video and let me know what you think I might should do from here to get it going the rest of the way. Thanks for the tip btw.
October 20, 2015 - YouTube
Sorry for the video being sideways and dark, but holy heck it kind of worked, for a few seconds at a time..

In case you can't hear me over the pool pump.. whats happening now is its lighting, but going out in a few seconds. Thoughts?
I agree the flex hose isn't ideal, and i'll get that replaced soon as I get one hot spa okay?
I just don't want to toss money at it till I'm sure it wont take a lot more to get it running, which at this point seems unlikely.