I already have a reputation of being fair but tough. Before the pool I've sent kids home because they couldn't conduct themselves in a proper manner. I've sent parents home along with their kids too. My kids are compliant for the most part. They also know that if their friends come over and can't listen that not only will the friends go home, not be able to come over again, but they too lose all privileges. I have no problems enjoying my pool while my kids are staring out the window crying.