I know you are real anxious about all of this so my suggestion is to document what you know for your discussion with PB and/or the mfg of the pool. Also, take a breath- it is not the end of the world.
1) I think the CH requirement could be an error or some old requirement. Most households water is above 120ppm Hardness. The only way to reduce hardness is to drain the pool and refill but if you are refilling with high hardness water then it is a no can-do situation.
Note - test your household water so you have that documented as well.
2) Because of the heater requirements, they are saying you cannot have a heater with a FG pool. Again this is a no win situation.
3) as was pointed out by
@Newdude , If TDS is max 1500ppm but salt requirement is 3000ppm of which salt is a component of TDS, then this is also unachievable. Are they saying you cannot have a Saltwater pool with a FG shell?
This will all work out. Just take it one step at a time.