I understand your angst, but please take this with all the respect for you I can muster.
When I visit a new house, and the host asks me to remove my shoes, it is polite to take your shoes off. That is their rules in their house. You can decide you do not want to revisit, but TFP has more knowledge than you will find anywhere on pool maintenance. Read the rules when you join the forum. Visiting another culture may be shock, but honoring that culture returns great benefits.
I am a relative newbie (2 years, but still, a TFP guide). There IS a system to the madness. All the folks here spend their time to make this work are VOLUNTEERS. Making it HARD for them to manage the 100s of thousands of members, makes it all that harder.
We have 10s of thousands threads per year. Lots of experience in how to handle the onslaught of questions have lead to our forum etiquette...
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The team here has spent 100s of thousand of hours helping others, and developed these rules to make the help and administration of the help to be a minimum.
I hope you will stay and contribute and understand the contribution of those that have led to the TFP that is today...and respecting their contributions.
I certainly do.