There is flow rate, which is commonly tied to GPM.
Then there is velocity or feet per second (fps) which is simply speed, and is not tied to any particular volume or mass of water, just the speed thru a given conduit (pipe).
don't want to lose flow rate to my spa when I combine systems, if I do.
If you keep the same pipe size, the only loss you will get will be from any increase in
distance, referred to as "feet of head". (This is assuming that your existing pool plumbing has been sized right for correct flow rates.) Remember, count both suction, return runs, to the spa, AND all the fittings including the ones throughout the system! All your components, filter, heater, etc. should have service plates listing max flow rates on them. You should also be able to find head loss through fitting schedules on the internet somewhere. FYI, this is for you if you wish to do the calcs. I've been in the industry for... well, lets just say for a while, and i don't know anyone that sits down and does a "complete" head loss calculation. There are always unknowns, like unforeseen fittings underground, etc. Usually, it's a good guess, and maybe add a little.
Buy a new variable speed pump. Pentair tech recommends the 3 HP Intelliflo which I could set for any flow I want.
True, but dont forget, pipe size will limit flow (GPM) after a "certain pump speed". YOU do the calcs on that to find out what your "sweet speed" is. I'm too old and tired...
To answer (what i think is) your main question, use at least 2" inch pipe to preserve
flow rate for the spa, and you should be ok as long as your run isn't too long to and from the equipment.