I was going to say, this is our first pool and I've only experienced with DE filter but the thing I hate most is such a mess it makes when backwashing. At least using Sand I can just dump it onto the lawn or dirt area. Sand appearing to be the cheapest of the bunch and cheap to replace so I do like the lower maintenance cost. I do like the cartridge filter idea as well, just dump it in the trash and put a new one in every several year. No concern of the heavy sand.
Thanks for everyone's input, you guys really helped my decision making harder.