You are going through the exact same thing I did when I took over my pool, TA was way low and the water temp dropped leaving my CSI on the lower end of the range. I brought my TA up to 70 and left it there for a while but because the water was so cold CSI was not much improved. I Took the TA up to 80 and finally 90 where it is currently and I am keeping my PH around 7.7 (drops to 7.60 when I add MA and gets to 7.75 within 24hrs when I add gain). I figure with my sheer I can drop the TA and target a lower PH when the water warms up in a few months. I asked and there are at lest a few of the more experienced members that keep there PH on the upper end of the range when the water is cold.
http://www.troublefreepool.com/threads/108207-Higher-PH-for-winter If Chem Geek and JoyfulNoise tell me it is OK I doubt I can go wrong

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My wife also made comments on my attention to the pool in the first month, I was brushing twice a day and testing at least as often mostly because it was a new toy. I am now down to brushing 10 min once a week, full test except CYA every couple of weeks, FC and TA every few days, and PH every day, takes me no more than 3 to 5 min to test and add MA. I do not have my Stenners running because the plaster is still new, taking a lot of MA and almost no chlorine, besides I want to be sure I truly understand how the pool behaves before adding a bit more automation.
Point is you will be doing fewer tasks fairly soon and those that you do preform will be much quicker due to practiced repetition.
For the grout I would use a block of wood something in the hardwood family and perhaps slightly wedge shaped that can pop the excess off without scratching or gouge the tile
One thing I did that is not widely in favor on this site is buy a digital PH meter $18 on amazon. I was having a hard time with the color comparison as was my wife. The main complaint about the meter seems to be they drift to often and require calibration. I bough a bottle of 7.0 buffer/calibration solution, I just stick the meter into the solution once a week or if I suspect an inaccurate reading and turn a screw on the meter till it reads 7.0, takes only a few seconds. When I calibrate the meter it has never been off by more than .05. Occasionally I do a side by side with the meter and drop test because I have been reusing the buffer solution and don't know how long I can keep that up before the solution either gets old or contaminated, it never has more than a .1 delta between the meter and the drop test and not always in the same direction so I feel fairly confident I am getting good results.